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I know you’re probably sitting there reading this saying to yourself, “You have to be lucky to be successful”.  Really??

The most common phrase that we hear is that “success is a state of mind”.  Some people argue that success is a natural result of proper planning, preparation and focused action,  but there are also many exceptions.  Have you wondered how two people can attempt the same objective in the same way and only one of them succeed?  Is it sheer luck?  Timing?  Tenacity?  More often than not a person’s mind-set will determine if they fail or succeed.

Mind-set refers to your predominant state of mind day to day.  It’s what you think about, focus on, and expect from daily experiences.  Think negative thoughts, expect the worst.  Feel pessimistic about your options and that’s exactly what you’ll draw into your life.  Stay positive.  Expect the best, focus on a successful outcome, most of the time you will achieve it.

3 Reasons Mindset Is Important

1)  A success mind-set boosts your confidence and self-belief.

A lack of belief in yourself usually comes along with a sense of powerlessness and futility, which is the exact opposite of a success mind-set.  Lack of confidence means you see no point in trying to be successful because it won’t happen anyway.  Obviously, this type of mind-set is a recipe for failure in any endeavor.

Having a true success mind-set, on the other hand, means you believe in yourself and your capabilities.  You believe you can succeed at nearly anything you try, and you’re willing to give it your best shot.  Even better, the more you do try, the more confidence and self-belief you build – until you’re virtually unstoppable!

2)  A success mind-set strengthens your determination.

Without a success mind-set, one failure is enough to convince you that pursuing your goals is a waste of time.  Tenacity and determination don’t exist in your world.  If you don’t become a raging success the first time you try, you surmise that it simply wasn’t meant to be.  Unfortunately, few things worth having are obtained so easily!

A success mind-set, however, strengthens your awareness that a failure is not the end of the story – it’s just one more way that didn’t work out the way you planned.  In fact, a true success mind-set makes it obvious that the only true failure occurs when you stop trying.

3)  A success mind-set encourages fruitful actions.

Have you ever found yourself wandering in circles because you didn’t know the best way to approach a specific goal?  Perhaps you had an idea of the best course of action but you felt intimidated by some of the action steps required.  As a result, you may have kept sabotaging your efforts as you searched in vain for an easier or less frightening way to your goal.

With a true success mind-set, you’ll always know the most effective action steps that will lead directly to your goal.  You have the inner confidence and determination to pursue them,  which is a sure recipe for success.

- Go for your dreams.
- Think positive.
- Believe
- Believe you can do better.
- Learn, grow and develop.
- Take chances.
- Give it 110% effort.
- Expect the best in every situation.
- Never fear failure.
- You fall down, get back up.

Stay passionate, Stay creative, Stay motivated.  Patience, persistence, yields success.

Now Go Get what You Want!!!

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I believe so strongly that anyone can obtain massive potential and create an abundance of self worth, confidence and belief with intense positive thinking.  When we shift our thoughts and emotions to a more positive place we feel and become more confident, happy, secure, abundant, and anything else we’re trying to accomplish.

The mind is in awesome instrument and yet we let it control us.  You have the control and power to change!!  We all must have this belief in order to have any peace of mind.  Our projection and direction of energy, negative or positive shapes our path in life.

Below I have listed 10 of my favorite self confidence and self belief affirmations.  I hope they can help encourage, motivate and inspire us all to live the lives we all deserve.

YOU ARE WORTH IT AND YOU DESERVE IT! ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS BELIEVE IT!!

1. I will not Fear the word Fear it is only a feeling; it cannot hold me back.
2. I can and will master anything if I do it enough times.
3. I am willing to fail today and any day in order to succeed.
4. I Do and always believe that I have the strength to make all my dreams come true.
5. I will always relax, and have fun with this no matter what the outcome may be.
6. I will always be proud of myself for even daring to try; many people won’t even do that!
7. I will put my full trust in my inner guidance today and everyday here after.
8. I will grow in strength with every forward step I take.
9. Today and Everyday I will release my hesitation to make room for victory!
10. I can and will create a solid plan and a belief in myself, and know there’s nothing I can’t do.

Again, today is a new day.  Rejoice in your accomplishments and share the dream of being a dreamer.  Life is beautiful and so are you!

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The media has definitely blown these two subjects out of proportion (Body Image And Healthy Weight).  Now you can fight back with your own positive agenda and discard all their negative propaganda.

You Are A Beautiful Person Inside And Out!!!  Don’t let anyone tell you different.

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My business partner and I were having a conversation about our own personal experiences with coaches during our athletic years.  During the conversation we agreed that having a connection with your coach is sometimes the difference between a successful team and a mediocre team.

Understanding we all get older and have greater responsibilities beyond just coaching, there is something to be said for the attention span of an athlete when they are told to do specific things during training and other instances beyond training.

 A coach, trainer or adviser to an athlete has to be careful of what they ask of their potential athletes.   Now we’re not saying that a coach has to be in Olympic level shape, but they should be taking care of their selves just like athletes are expected to do.

Most coaches get caught up in their sport and forget that today’s youth is very impressionable. They’re more likely to adhere to a coach who takes care of him/her-self than one who is not.

I’m sure you’ve heard someone say “Wait ‘till you get my age”  “when you have kids you’ll let yourself go”, or my favorite “I just don’t have the time.”  Do they sound like good messages to relay to our upcoming leaders and coaches?

Absolutely not!

Coaches should be able to show good form and/or perform a little of what they are implementing
into their teams workouts or programs.  We always say “If we can’t do it properly why should we ask someone else to do it.”

So if you’re one of those coaches who don’t practice even a little of what you preach, get
started on your next workout program.  I guarantee you’ll motivate your kids to put forth an even greater effort when they see yours.

This is just a little food for thought or wake up call.

Athletes are products of their coaches, just like we are products of our parents. So take care of yourself if you’re coaching and be careful of what you ask of your athletes, especially if you’re out of shape.

If you would like Angelo “The Inspiration Hunter” To assist you and your team in getting off on the right mental foot, or  maybe you would just like him to give one of his inspiring workouts and talks.  Contact #203.921.5888 or Office# 203.352.7515

To get a head start download his FREE 15 page e-book. Communication, Mental Preparation for Sport and Life.

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